We don’t even think about life without the internet anymore. The web is everywhere for schoolwork, socializing, or gaming in our children’s lives. Yet every parent should be asking themselves: *How can I keep my child safe online and still give him/her a chance to have an amazing time with all the possibilities that the internet offers?
Even though we’d like our kids to be online all the time, there’s something important we need to remember: the internet isn’t inherently safe. The dangers – from cyberbullying to internet predators and pornography – are there. But don’t fret, if you’re proactive, have boundaries and have regular conversations with your child, you can make the world of the internet safe for them.
And if you feel like there’s so much to do or are unsure where to start, worry not! Here, I’ll show you *all you have to know* so you can teach your child internet safety in a manner that’s realistic, accessible, and… dare I say, entertaining! Let’s dive right in.
Why You Should Care The Most About Internet Safety.
And you might be thinking, “But is this really so critical?” The quick answer: *yes* it is. And the stakes are much higher than most parents think. But here are some shocking facts:
– *1 in 5 children* (20%) will be the victim of a sexual solicitation online,[Cyberbullying Research Center](https://cyberbullying.org/).
– *Cyberbullying* is on the rise. As [the Pew Research Center] (https://www.pewresearch.org) found, *59% of teenagers** have been harassed online somehow. From them, *1 in 10* describe it being a habit.
– *49% of children* have seen porn online without searching for it [Internet Safety 101](https://www.internetsafety101.org/).
These are numbers enough to chill any parent. But the good news is: *you are in charge*. Internet safety doesn’t have to be scary to teach your kid. With some help and the right tools, you can give your child the knowledge that he or she requires to stay safe online.
Protect Children from the Internet — Internet Safety for All Ages Start Young: Internet Safety Education for Children of All Ages
It is never too early to begin teaching your child online safety. Actually, the younger they are when you initiate these conversations, the better. Researchers have discovered that the more kids are exposed to online risks as early as possible, the more they can handle them in the future.
Of course, that will depend on their age and knowledge level. With children at all stages, here’s how to get started:
For Littler Children (ages 5-10): Preparing the Stages
Young kids are still kids and have just recently discovered digital life. They might have no contact with you other than through videos, playing rudimentary games, or educational apps. The first step is teaching them basic digital behaviors and “stranger danger.”
- Draft a “No-Go” Zone
It suggests that some places online are unsafe, just like some worldwide. Any apps or sites that let you chat or message should remain closed until you are 18.
- Ask for Parental Controls
Use parental controls on devices, apps, and browsers to block inappropriate content and check in on them. Limits can be started with [Google Family Link](https://families.google.com/familylink/) or Apple’s Screen Time.
- Open Discussions On Privacy
Make sure they know that you do not post information about them online, such as their full name, school, address, and phone number.
For Tweens (10-13): Creating Awareness
By the time your child hits the tween years, he’s probably already using more complex apps, such as social media apps such as Instagram, Snapchat, or TikTok. And this is where the real dialogue has to start.
- Teach Them About Cyberbullying
Tell them about cyberbullying’s harmful behavior and remind them to always report any cyberbullying they see or have a problem with. To learn more about preventing cyberbullying, visit [StopBullying.gov](https://www.stopbullying.gov/).
- Configure Social Media Rules
If they’re on social media, establish what they can and cannot post. Make sure they know that once you put something on the internet, you can’t undo it. Ask them for permission before posting photos of themselves or their friends.
- Making a Digital Contract
Talk with your child about making a digital contract about internet access. The contract can include time constraints, who can talk to whom, and how you should act when something doesn’t feel right.
For Teens (Age 13+): Reminding Kids to Take Responsibility
By the time your kid hits adolescence, they’ll also be spending more time online in ways you won’t be able to keep track of. It is now time to *focus less on rules and more on trust*. Teens should have the autonomy to make good decisions and have open communication channels with you.
- Remind Them About the Online Presence
Remind them that their online reputation is a big deal. They know recruiters, universities, and potential partners can search for them, so what they put out there counts.
- Develop the Idea of Digital Consent
This includes knowing how to honor other people’s privacy, not giving someone else their information without their consent, and sexting and obscene websites can be very harmful.
- Teach Healthy Digital Habits
Teach students how to mix screen time with physical activities and to take breaks so they don’t get too lost in the virtual world.
How to Keep Your Child Safe On The Internet.
Now that you are more in the know about what to do when teaching your child about internet safety, here are some *real-life* suggestions for keeping their online life safe:
1. Be a Good Person
Children are taught by example. Teach your child how to live online safely, from privacy to having a healthy balance between online and offline time.
2. Take Technology at Your Own Risk
Parental controls and bundled device settings can really help keep your kid safe from harmful content. Some reliable resources include:
– [Norton Family](https://us.norton.com/norton-family)
– [Qustodio](https://www.qustodio.com/)
3. Create a Culture of Open Communication
Create a climate where your child feels like they can go to you if something online gets them down or if there’s suspicious behavior. Remember that they can always turn to you and not get caught.
- Learn to Think
Learn how to evaluate what your child finds on the internet. Help them understand that facts aren’t always what they hear and help them double-check statements.
- Limit Screen Time
Too much screen time is not only unhealthy but also risky for kids. Limit screen time daily and promote offline time, like sports or time with friends.
In The End: Don’t Wait, Get Started Today
Your children are not being taught internet safety once, and that conversation is never over—it’s an evolving conversation every step of the way. The internet is amazing for exploring, networking, and having fun, but it is also full of threats that need to be faced head-on.
Take action, use the right tools, and open communication channels, and you’ll equip your child with the skills and knowledge to navigate the web safely. So shut up and get started. The more you can talk about internet safety now, the better your child will be equipped for anything they encounter online.
To read more trusted advice on how to protect your kids online, see these related articles:
– [Common Sense Media’s Parent’s Guide to Internet Safety](https://www.commonsensemedia.org)
– [Cyberbullying Research Center](https://cyberbullying.org/)
– [Internet Safety 101](https://www.internetsafety101.org/)
Remember: You can never be too young (or old) to start educating your kid on internet safety. So what are you waiting for? Let’s start the conversation today!
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